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致读者 第一章 家庭学校的重要性 第二章 第一任教师 第三章 何时开始训练儿童 第四章 教育方法 第五章 圣经为课本 第六章 大自然的课本 第七章 大自然课本的实际教训 第八章 需要准备 第九章 呼吁自我改进 第十章 幸福和成功的秘诀 第十一章 自幼施教 第十二章 顺从要成为习惯 第十三章 自制 第十四章 安静、尊重与恭敬 第十五章 爱惜家中的物品 第十六章 健康原则 第十七章 清洁 第十八章 整洁、秩序和有规律 第十九章 纯洁 第二十章 帮忙 第二十一章 勤劳 第二十二章 殷勤与坚持 第二十三章 克己、无私和体谅他人 第二十四章 节约和节俭 第二十五章 简朴 第二十六章 礼貌与克制 第二十七章 快乐和感恩 第二十八章 忠实 第二十九章 诚实与正直 第三十章 自立与自尊 第三十一章 品格的重要性 第三十二章 品格的塑造 第三十三章 父母塑造品格的责任 第三十四章 品格败坏的由来 第三十五章 父母如何建造坚强的品格 第三十六章 年幼的优势 第三十七章 习惯的力量 第三十八章 研究年龄、性情和脾气 第三十九章 意志是成功的要素 第四十章 示范基督化的原则 第四十一章 培训的目的 第四十二章 开始管教之时 第四十三章 家庭中的管教 第四十四章 纠正性管教的实施 第四十五章 凭着爱心和坚定的态度 第四十六章 纵容的害处 第四十七章 松弛的管教及其后果 第四十八章 儿童的反应 第四十九章 亲友的态度 第五十章 什么是真教育? 第五十一章 预备入学 第五十二章 选择学校 第五十三章 教会的责任 第五十四章 教师与父母合作 第五十五章 合作管教 第五十六章 学校和学院的教育 第五十七章 运动与健康 第五十八章 为实际生活而训练 第五十九章 教授实用的技术 第六十章 认识和顺从生命之律 第六十一章 厨房中的主妇 第六十二章 为生存而进餐 第六十三章 凡事节制 第六十四章 家庭和节制运动 第六十五章 合适服装的福惠 第六十六章 教导服装的基本原则 第六十七章 时尚的魅力 第六十八章 色情泛滥的时代 第六十九章 恶习的影响 第七十章 告戒与劝勉 第七十一章 父母的警惕与帮助 第七十二章 改良的战斗 第七十三章 永恒福利的责任 第七十四章 每一个家庭都是一个教会 第七十五章 引领儿童归向基督 第七十六章 预备儿女加入教会 第七十七章 家中的圣经 第七十八章 祈祷的能力 第七十九章 安息日是快乐的日子 第八十章 敬畏圣洁的事物 第八十一章 家庭与教会的协调 第八十二章 时日不多 第八十三章 报赏

    亮光已从上帝的道和祂圣灵的证言照耀出来,以致谁也不必对于自己的本分有所误解。上帝要求父母们教养自己的儿女认识祂,尊重祂的要求;他们要训练自己的小孩子,作主家庭的幼小成员,有美好的品格和可爱的性情,以便他们可以配在天庭发光。父母若疏忽职守,放任自己的儿女行错,便是向他们关闭上帝圣城之门。这些事实必须铭记在父母们的心上;并须唤醒他们负起久已荒疏的工作。(二)

(一)《文稿》一九○九年第三十一号。

(二)《证言》卷五第325,326页。

 

  AS MARRIAGE UNITES TWO HEARTS AND LIVES IN LOVE, AND A NEW HOME IS CREATED, AN EARLY CONCERN OF ITS FOUNDERS IS THAT THE CHILDREN WHICH GRACE THIS NEW HOME SHALL BE PROPERLY REARED. THE QUESTION OF MANOAH OF OLD, "HOW SHALL WE ORDER THE CHILD?" IS THOUGHTFULLY PONDERED BY PARENTS TODAY AS THEY LOOK INTO THE FACE OF THE PRECIOUS AND HELPLESS GIFT ENTRUSTED TO THEIR CARE.[1]
  THE SIGNIFICANCE OF INSTRUCTION ON CHILD GUIDANCE IS BEST UNDERSTOOD AS WE NOTE THE IMPORTANT PLACE IT TAKES IN THE WORD OF GOD AND THE FREQUENT AND DETAILED REFERENCES TO THE SUBJECT IN THE SPIRIT OF PROPHECY WRITINGS. IN HER SEVERAL BOOKS, BUT MORE PARTICULARLY IN THE ARTICLES ON PRACTICAL CHRISTIAN LIVING WHICH APPEARED FROM WEEK TO WEEK IN THE VARIOUS JOURNALS OF THE DENOMINATION, MRS. WHITE SET FORTH A WEALTH OF COUNSEL TO PARENTS. IN ADDITION TO THIS, SHE ADDRESSED TO VARIOUS FAMILIES HUNDREDS OF PERSONAL TESTIMONIES IN WHICH SHE DEALT SPECIFICALLY WITH THE PROBLEMS THEY FACED. IN THESE ARTICLES AND PERSONAL TESTIMONIES SHE DESCRIBED THE PRINCIPLES WHICH SHOULD GUIDE PARENTS, AND THE PROCEDURES THEY SHOULD FOLLOW AS THEY WERE KEPT BEFORE HER IN VISION.[2] 
 IN HER LATER YEARS MRS. WHITE EXPRESSED A DESIRE TO BRING OUT A BOOK FOR CHRISTIAN PARENTS THAT WOULD MAKE CLEAR "THE MOTHER'S DUTY AND INFLUENCE OVER HER CHILDREN." IN THE RECENTLY ISSUED THE ADVENTIST HOME AND THIS COMPANION WORK, THAT DESIRE IS NOW FULFILLED. ONLY THE THOUGHTFUL AND PRAYERFUL PERUSAL OF THE SIGNIFICANT COUNSELS OF THIS VOLUME CAN REVEAL THE TREMENDOUS AND FAR-REACHING INFLUENCE OF TRAINING THE CHILD PROPERLY AS GOD HAS PLACED THE RESPONSIBILITY WITH PARENTS.[3] 
 THE FACT THAT ELLEN WHITE WAS THE MOTHER OF FOUR BOYS ENABLED HER TO SET FORTH IN AN UNDERSTANDING AND SYMPATHETIC MANNER THE INSTRUCTION IMPARTED TO HER. HER EXPERIENCE IN THE PRACTICAL APPLICATION OF THE PRINCIPLES SHE HAS SET BEFORE OTHERS BEGETS CONFIDENCE IN THE HEART OF THE READER.[4] 
 ALL THE E. G. WHITE SOURCES, PUBLISHED AND UNPUBLISHED, HAVE BEEN DRAWN UPON IN PREPARING CHILD GUIDANCE. FULL SOURCE CREDITS APPEAR AT THE CLOSE OF EACH CHAPTER. BECAUSE THE CONTENT OF THIS VOLUME HAS BEEN BROUGHT TOGETHER FROM A NUMBER OF SOURCES WRITTEN OVER A PERIOD OF SEVENTY YEARS, THERE OCCASIONALLY OCCURS AN UNAVOIDABLE BREAK IN THOUGHT AND MANNER OF ADDRESS AS THE SEVERAL STATEMENTS ARE LINKED TOGETHER IN THEIR NATURAL SUBJECT SEQUENCE. THE COMPILERS WERE LIMITED IN THEIR WORK TO THE SELECTING AND ARRANGING OF THE VARIOUS STATEMENTS AND TO THE SUPPLYING OF HEADINGS.[5] 
 CHILD GUIDANCE WAS PREPARED UNDER THE DIRECTION OF THE BOARD OF TRUSTEES OF THE ELLEN G. WHITE PUBLICATIONS IN THEIR OFFICES IN WASHINGTON, D.C. THE WORK WAS DONE IN HARMONY WITH MRS. WHITE'S INSTRUCTION TO HER TRUSTEES THAT THEY SHOULD PROVIDE FOR THE PRINTING OF COMPILATIONS FROM HER MANUSCRIPT AND PUBLISHED SOURCES.[6] 
 THE NEED FOR THIS VOLUME IS GREAT. ETERNAL INTERESTS ARE AT STAKE. THE DETAILED COUNSELS ON DISCIPLINE, CHARACTER BUILDING, AND PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL EDUCATION WILL BE TREASURED BY EVERY THOUGHTFUL PARENT. THAT THIS VOLUME, STANDING BY THE SIDE OF THE ADVENTIST HOME, MESSAGES TO YOUNG PEOPLE, AND OTHER OF THE E. G. WHITE BOOKS OF COUNSEL TO PARENTS AND YOUTH, MAY SERVE TO GUIDE FATHERS AND MOTHERS IN THEIR MOST IMPORTANT WORK IS THE SINCERE WISH OF THE PUBLISHERS AND[7] 
 THE TRUSTEES OF THE ELLEN G. WHITE PUBLICATIONS.[8] 
 To the Reader
It is the privilege of parents to take their children with them to the gates of the city of God, saying, "I have tried to instruct my children to love the Lord, to do His will, and to glorify Him." To such the gate will be thrown open, and parents and children will enter in. But all cannot enter. Some are left outside with their children, whose characters have not been transformed by submission to the will of God. A hand is raised, and the words are spoken, "You have neglected home duties. You have failed to do the work that would have fitted the soul for a home in heaven. You cannot enter." The gates are closed to the children because they have not learned to do the will of God, and to parents because they have neglected the responsibilities resting upon them. [MANUSCRIPT 31, 1909.] {CG 13.1}[9]
  Light has been shining from the Word of God and the testimonies of His Spirit so that none need err in regard to their duty. God requires parents to bring up their children to know Him and to respect His claims; they are to train their little ones, as the younger members of the Lord's family, to have beautiful characters and lovely tempers, that they may be fitted to shine in the heavenly courts. By neglecting their duty and indulging their children in wrong, parents close to them the gates of the city of God. These facts must be pressed home upon parents; they must arouse and take up their long-neglected work. [TESTIMONIES FOR THE CHURCH, VOL. 5, PP. 325, 326.] Ellen G. White. {CG 13.2}[10]
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